30 3 / 2011
First off….I would like to say that young Romeo could get it…..a few times
Anywho….I think that bitchiness is essential to life. Sometimes my bitchiness gets me & others through the day #imjustsayin I think that maybe I should try and be nice and cater to other’s feelings….but I’ve found my best approach is straight no chaser. For some it works….for others….we no longer talk lol. I think I may present myself with a challenge….I will be nice for the entire day….and I think I’ll talk about how that went tomorrow….it’s my friend’s birthday….maybe that will help. Until next time….
Happiness Begets Happiness
28 3 / 2011
Growing up is hard to do. The people around us are the ones who make it easier. Friendships can change, grow apart, cease to exist…but is someone else necessarily to blame? Communication is a two way street and sometimes our man friends fail to realize that losing a bff is worse than losing them (although to save their ego we don’t say just that). It’s like in sex & the city when Carrie is mad at Miranda around the same time she finds out Steve cheated. Who do you think she was more miserable without? Carrie…..at that point f*ck a Steve lol and after she got her bff relationship back on track she could focus on dealing with her issues with Steve. I went through a similar experience last year with a friend. Thankfully we are tighter than ever now but due to locale changes & attitudes & weak cellular service (LBS) another bff break up could be on the horizon….and that makes me sad. I have sat back and wondered well this is almost twice in almost a year is it me? But then I look back at how I feel about this go round & I decide it’s not because last time I was so sad because I was wrong…this time not so much because I don’t think anyone is wrong, we just may need to hash it out….if it weren’t for that pesky failing cellphone tower lol but anyway does anyone feel me on this? Do you agree that losing a bff can be way more major than some man we’re dating? Or do my friends and I just have crazy, overdependent relationships? Not that we care lol it works for us but still…..let your opinion be known :-)